All that Matters is the Love

Song of the Soulmate
A Resource To Support Soulmates and Sacred Loving

The phrase that has been most consistently repeated to me by the Blessed Beings when I open for loving guidance about relationship is: “All That Matters Is The Love.” Whether I am asking for support for a healing client, in teaching or ministry, or for myself personally, this phrase, this Truth, is always what comes to me first.

During my near-death experience at 16, the greatest lesson and awareness that I was given at that time, as well, was that EVERYTHING was LOVE. I saw that Life is Love. It breathes life into us. We are ALL made of Love. Everything that happens in Life is to help us grow in Love. It is to teach us how to better give, receive, reflect and become Love.

In relationship, we can also bring healing and transformation to difficulties by actively reminding ourselves that “Love is all that matters.” This does not mean that we should remain in unhealthy patterns or situations, or ignore areas of significant concern. It simply means that we can turn things over to the Love and allow it to help us grow in the ways necessary to purify what is unhealthy and lead us to a deeper and more beautiful expression of itself. Love will even help us see if a relationship is more toxic than beneficial for our wellbeing.

Love’s strongest drive is to express itself ever more deeply, purely, powerfully and beautifully. It will continually propel us forward in this quest, yet truth is an absolute. There is no room for secrecy, dishonesty, cruelty, pride, anger, manipulation, etc., in Great Love. Nothing false or small in heart can exist when True Love is present. And if a connection is not healthy, Love will also shine light upon it so it may dissolve or we may choose otherwise.

When impasses are reached in relationship, the Holy Ones encourage us to analyze what is there for us to learn, address it with compassion for ourselves and for our beloved, and turn it over to the Love itself. Relinquish the need to separate and control, and let the Truth and Beauty of your Love clear your view. Let it lead and light your way. You will find your way and likely become much closer, even more deeply in touch with the greatness of the Love between you.

To quote a greeting card which sentiments I admire:

“One must never run away from love. There is no other direction.”